Thursday, September 12, 2013

Coffee Club and Dirty Talk

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By Mary Quast

A few years ago, a bunch of gal pals and I formed a coffee club. We used to meet while the kids were in school and attempted to solve all the problems of our community over coffee. However, due to busy schedules we now periodically meet at night on a porch or deck to enjoy cocktails. My friends know I’m an erotic romance author and when we get together (especially when the wine flows) the fun conversations happen. One topic that seems to always come up is that on talking dirty. Different women enjoy different types of dirty talk. The following quotes are what were the most popular during our last “coffee club” meeting.

"That feels good." When your partner does something that you like, tell him so. This is one of the easiest things to say when dirty talking. It’s simple, to the point and doesn’t require much thought.

"Here’s what I plan to do to you." Describe to your partner all the things you’re going to do to please him. Or better yet, describe the actions as you’re doing them. This is another simple dirty talk technique that can drive him wild. This is really fun to tell him via text, phone or note while he’s at work.

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"I want you to be a naughty boy." Dirty talk and naughtiness inevitably go together. Praise your partner for doing “naughty” things, such as performing oral sex or giving you a strip tease. Yes, guys will do it! Once you say you want him to do it, he just might.

"You make me so hot/wet.” Knowing that he’s pleasing and arousing you will help turn your partner on even more. Describe how he’s making you feel, particularly how his actions and words are stimulating you.

"I want you to be inside me." This form of dirty talk can be sweet and sensual or downright filthy, depending on the tone you use and when you say it. You can also make it dirtier by following with some vulgar language. As long as your partner is okay with it, vulgar sexual terms are typically acceptable in the bedroom.
Be sure to pick up one of my 1 Night Stand books and find some more “dirty talk” you might find fun to use.

Romance author and Artist Mary Quast lives in a log home affectionately named "Camp Run-A-Muk" located in the woods of Michigan with her husband, three sons, and a collection of animal family members.

Twitter: @MaryQuast

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