By Dena Celeste
Hello everyone! I’m so excited to be
here. Today I’m going to talk about limits, as it’s something that features heavily
in my new release, Her Master’s Gift.
Limits are really important in relationships, but especially in BDSM dynamics.
There are soft limits and hard limits, one which is allowed to be pushed and
the other which is to be absolutely respected.
Soft limits are generally to be worked
through. They can be things that scare you a bit, that you just don’t like (but
don’t hate), or that you have no interest in but don’t care either way. I know
that, for some, anal, flogging, and even whips make that list! The relationship
style in Her Master’s Gift is
Master/slave, where Sam is the Master, and Katie the slave. His primary role is
to protect, but also to guide her and push her to her fullest sensual
potential.
One of Katie’s soft limits is being with
women, especially dominant women, after a previous experience scarred her.
She’s bisexual, and very much appreciates women sexually, but the idea of being
at another’s mercy is too much to handle. Well, to handle alone.
Part of what I loved about exploring her
character and her journey is that she wasn’t by herself. There were steps she
needed to take of her own volition, but the collar she’d earned, the master she
belonged to, and her friends in the Lifestyle, all provided support for her to
make her way. The community is so important to her story and her growth.
I find BDSM fascinating because trying
new things is encouraged. There are lists of things to try, new skills to
learn, and passions just waiting to be awakened. Testing the limits, seeing
just how far you can push the envelope while still remaining within Safe, Sane,
and Consensual boundaries, is part of the thrill.
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